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Sometimes you just need really good advice or guidance about a situation from someone who has an impartial view, but will tell you like it is in love. This is the page to do so. Feel free to ask me any question and I will respond weekly, every Thursday evening. You can remain anonymous knowing this is a safe place. Take a peek at some of the questions folks have asked. I look forward to hearing from you!


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Maia can you pls post a BLOG on should i talk to a man that was and has already tried to talk to my sister it is to my knowledge that we should not ever cross that road what is your take on this and i look forward to hearing from you on this. 17. August 2016


HI love, I wanted to answer your question as this may not be an entire blog post. My answer to this: the confusion that it can cause in your relationship with your sister isn’t worth it. You should never settle for being the second option. There are plenty of men out there, why spend your time on him? At the end of the day, your relationship with your sister is what is important. Leave him alone! Xoxo

Maia I’ve been asking the Lord and people have been praying for me also, that can recieve my prayer language but to be perfectly honest I’ve been really scared to really let the Holy Spirit do it. Do you have any advice on how to not be afraid? 23. June 2016

Hi love, great question. The Bible tells us the Jesus sent the Holy Spirit as a comforter, so this means that Holy Spirit is there to help guide us, reassure us and provide peace. With that being said, you have no reason to be afraid. In addition, don’t think that you have to sound like other people or that you might sound silly. It’s such an intimate language between you and your Father. There are times when I don’t know what to pray…I don’t have the Words. Once I begin to speak in tongues, it all begins to pour out and I feel refreshed. Just let go and allow God to have His way. Xoxo

My male best friend for the last 8 years got married over 2 years ago. From that date until now, he and I don’t speak because his wife doesn’t like me. My feelings are extremely hurt. Any advice? 9. June 2016

Ugh. I’ve been there and I know it hurts. Sis, you’ve got to respect where he is and let him go. As hard as it is to understand, some friendships are only for a season. Now….if you’re hurt because you were in love with him and he didn’t choose you; it’s time for you to get over it love (just telling you the truth.) It’s hard not to feel rejected, but perhaps God knew better than you did. As for the wife, well…she’s the wife. Respect her status in his life. If she doesn’t want him talking to you, she’s either insecure; knows something you don’t or just simply wants you to respect their relationship. There’s really no easy answer. It is what it is and you need to move on. Xoxo

I’m finding it hard to forgive. How do I let this go? 9. June 2016

Oooh Chile. Unforgiveness is so unhealthy both emotionally and physically. Forgiving someone doesn’t mean that you forget what they did, forgiveness just means that you aren’t going to allow someone else’s shortcomings affect you any longer. You have heard it before, forgiveness is for you. Even if they never say sorry, you have to release them. Unforgiveness leaves the door open for you to allow their issues to become yours; they are walking around with not a care, but you’re the one in bondage.

Never allow the shortcomings of others affect your “happy”, your peace or your joy. Xoxo

I feel stuck. What should I do? 27. May 2016

It’s an awful feeling, I know. Sometimes we feel stuck because of fear…fear of branching out or doing things differently. Tap in to what you are most passionate about; begin a new career; go back to school…whatever it may be, don’t be afraid to try it. Your motivation for change will kick in…trust me. Do you my friend. Xoxo

How do you know when a woman is right for you? 27. May 2016

Great question! I’m going to answer this from a woman’s perspective. Is she your safe place? Do you trust her completely? Does she make you want to do better and be better? Is she good at balancing both your needs and hers? Is she a giver? Does she have a spirit that is compatible to yours? Can you see yourself spending the rest of your life together? Does she run at the first sign of trouble? These are things you should really consider. You know in your know-er (not a word, oh well) if she’s right for you. Go for it and keep me posted!! Xoxo

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